Is ‘The Bachelor’ star Jake Pavelka gay?

by on June 23, 2010 | 32 Comments

With the battle of ‘who ended it and why’ going on with The Bachelor star Jake Pavelka and his former fiancee Vienna Girardi, we had to ask…is Jake gay? (Not that there’s anything wrong with that)

Vienna alleges that during their relationship, Jake refused to have sex with her because he “felt premarital sex was a sin”.

Radar Online reports:

“Even though she was in love with him, she knew he didn’t love her, ” a source claims.

Vienna eventually came to the conclusion that the real reason for Jake’s aversion to intimacy with her was not his religious ideals but his lack of interest in women. “He just wasn’t ever physical with her,” the source added. “Vienna told me, ‘I don’t think Jake is into girls.’”

And the plot thickens! What do you think? An attempt to stay relevant for Vienna?? Or is Jake gay?

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  • Carrie

    No, Vienna is just bitter.

    • Jeff

      She's bitter b/c she didn't get laid. He likes something that she doesn't have. This dude gets on my nerve so much. He's a FAKE!!!!!

  • Observant One

    Jake looks gay(not that there's anything wrong with that) and Vienna looks like an ostrich… period

    • Lulu

      Ostrich!!!! Do ostriches have lazy eyes? That girl is barking ugly compared to the other girls. (not that looks are everything)

  • Kristin

    I absolutely think he's gay, or at least completely narcissistic and asexual. There's just something about him that's missing and not genuine.

    • Jeff

      NARCISISTIC IS THE RIGHT WORD. HE'S GAAAAAY!!!!

      Oh and he's not genuine at all. FAKE, FAKE, FAKE in every way he acts. he CANNOT fool me!!!!

      • Jeff

        I CANNOT stand his fake face and smile ….. Ewwwww !!!!

  • HisDivorcee

    As the ex-wife of a gay man, I feel pretty sure Jake's gay. And so do my other friends whose ex's are gay. When did he get so religious? Straight men want sex with women. Gay men don't. There's nothing wrong with him being gay. Better for Vienna to find out now than 25 years down the pike when she walks in and he's poking a man in their bed.

    • Debbie

      When trying to put the pieces frrom other stories together, I came to the same conclusion and thought perhaps he is gay. So, I googled to see if Jake Pavelka is gay. Well, I guess I am not the only one that came to that same conclusion. If he is not gay, then, any man that will claim on two different Bachelor shows that he is there to finally meet the woman of his dreams and spend the rest of his life with and then finds that "Special" someone, only to now pursue his newfound career, was only in it
      for himself to begin with. I am sorry for your heartache Vienna, but now you know what type of man he really is. Jillian you should also be glad to not have fallen for the cry baby who hangs on balconies for pity parties.

    • Jenny

      Wow! Seems to be a lot of guys who marry women as a cover-up for their sexuality. So sad and selfish. But yeah, Jake is gay. Not only is it apparent in his actions (entirely too over dramatic, more so than a female) but its just his "time" to be gay. I personally think that men in their 20's and early 30's all have a homosexual component that they are working out and who knows, he may be choose to be straight 30 years down the line and maybe Vienna will have a chance. Really sad but true.

      • Jeff

        He can no longer lies. Go to the gay forum and you'll find out how many married men are gay. They hide for so many years that kill them from the inside!

  • Lulu

    Vienna now has time to get that lazy right eye fixed. Is it just me? There is a serious problem with those eyes not moving at the same time. It's either a lazy eye or Daffy duck eyes (too close togethwer)?

    • Jeff

      Well, she didn't get laid for so long. Jake doesn't want to give it to her. That's the reason why she has lazy eyes.

  • nnss

    Jake is so gay, period!

    • Jeff

      No doubt. He's so fake the very first time I saw this guy on TV. Fake everything !

  • Mark

    Okay, three words: G-A-Y!

    And not only that but Jake is a reality-show-monster opportunist who would so much as sell his testicles to gain 15 additional minutes to his fame.

    The breakup comes down to this: He just realized that not only could he not get "intimate" with Vienna, but he also discovered that she doesn't have the right "parts" he really lusting after…..and I don't mean reality-tv show parts either!

    • Jeff

      NARCISISTIC IS THE RIGHT WORD. HE'S GAAAAAY!!!!

      Any unfortunate woman to marry this guy. Kick him from behind and say good bye. Run, run away from this guy!!!

  • Sue

    I was never a Vienna fan but have lost my respect for Jake. I believe he picked Vienna because he never planned on staying with any one of the gals and felt Vienna would be the one most able to tolerate a breakup. Tenley was extra emotional and vulnerable. Jake is so into himself and wanting to be a "star". He was a lousy actor on The Bachelorette and Bachelor and yet thinks he is so great. I don't think we ever saw the "real Jake". Gay? Possibly. Egotistical? Definitely. Wanna be actor? Most definitely.

  • Sarah

    I am counting down to the People magazine cover. Hes a good looking guy and needs to be true to himself

    • Jeff

      He can only hide for so long. Can't hide forever believe me. I tried so hard but finally I have to come or I would kill myself.

  • zack

    Every gay man that sees him can tell. Give me a break for those of you who think he is straight. Way to old to be a Virgin.

    • Jeff

      totally agree! Only non-male human being believes he's virgin. No man can go without for so long whether it's for the religious reason or whatever. I don't buy whatever he says. You CAN only hold it for so long like a few days …… hahahahah. He can't fool me. He IS GAAAAYYYY! This guy is is so FAKE in every way he acts.

  • judith

    Jake seems sooooooooo gay, acts like a gay man, talks like a gay man (there is nothing wrong with being gay) buy gay men should not use women to cover up their sexual orientation period. He should come out of the CLOSET!!!

    • Jeff

      I know there's a guy I used to work with, his name is Jake too, I swear! He's bi but he uses women to cover up. He would have settled if he's been a real man. Good looking guy but no woman wants to take him. So go figure huh!!!!!

      And this guy Jake, he IS GAAAAYYYY!!!!

  • Jeff

    I would like to see a sample of his handwriting and signature. There are telltale signs of sexuality. As a handwriting analyst I should be able to decipher where Jake is coming from.

    • Jeff

      We don't need to see the sig or anything at all. He IS GAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!

  • Jeff

    Only unlucky girl marries him cuz he can't have sex with her. He has excuse of religion. yeah right! He can only fool the aliens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not me. Just come out dude. If you're gay, you're gay, big deal …..

  • Rick

    Being a Gay man myself that tried to fool others by pretending to be straight in the past – He has a lot of the exact same qualities. His excuse for not having sex until he's married is just a cover up. Straight men always want to have sex with Women. Even before I knew anything about him – and just saw Jake on TV – my Gadar went off big time. Now after hearing from Vienna that once the spotlight was not on them – there was no intimacy – that was the proof. And yes – he went on the show to pursue an acting career. He is a Fame Whore. Let's face it folks – the world is still not ready for a Gay male TV/Movie star or even a Gay male Singer. Gay Men in entertainment usually have to hide it early in their career's before they finally (if ever) come out. That's the way this world is sadly. SORRY FOLKS – JAKE IS DEFINITELY GAY! He reminds me of Tom Cruise in a way…….

  • MEB

    Besides being arrogant and a fame seeker, Jake seems to be missing something. He was kind of creepy. He was completely unfeeling during the interview in an odd way. I think he's flat out gay. And that whole cleansing thing after having sex for a month and then doesn't want to have sex any longer for religious reasons!!! What the hell?! If that's not a guy whose got issues with his sexuality, come on….. That's when Vienna should have put on her track shoes and start running AWAY FROM JAKE. Her youth kept her from leaving a sick relationship and an man with issues she is not capable (nor should she) of fixing. And both admitted the first month together was great. Then all of the sudden he needs to cleanse himself. Jake is clearly a faker. When you don't admit who you really are, your whole life is a lie and the people in your wake end up getting hurt. I understand he wants a Hollywood life and I'm sure he's afraid to admit he's gay, but in the meantime he's hurting people for fame. And if that means pretending to be in love and pretending to be straight, I think Jake would do just about anything to get what he wants. And by the way, I read the comment Vienna is ugly in this sight. Vienna is hardly, unattractive. Enough said on that. One last thing, Vienna was very dramatic last night, but what I sensed clearly is she's hurt as hell!!! At least she was authentic, and it was clear she was in real pain. Frankly, I think she's completely bewildered, unfortunately due her youth. She needs to be careful not falling for another faker and taker. PS The comments about her so called lazy eye, maybe those who made those comments should take a look at themselves in the mirror. Are you perfect?

  • ginger

    Did anyone really think these two would last? Gay or not who knows who cares. He never loved her he was out for himself to get a career. She is a litle on the trashy side. I do believe Vienna really loved him though. They are both holding on to there 15 minutes as long as they can!

  • gregg

    That guy Jake is Gay as a Goose!!
    what real man would not have had sex with that sexy girl?? cmon!
    he's a LOSER……………………..

  • rdw

    @Rick

    "the world is still not ready for a Gay male TV/Movie star or even a Gay male Singer."

    We have a few gay male singers (that comes to my mind) who are out and accepted by their fans:

    Elton John
    George Micheal
    Jonny Matthis
    Adam Lambert