The Bachelor Cast-Off Emily O’Brien Happy Ben Flajnik Sent Her Home

by on February 16, 2012 | 12 Comments

The Bachelor Cast-Off Emily O'Brien Happy Ben Flajnik Sent Her Home

The Bachelor’s newest cast-off, Emily O’Brien is glad to be off of Ben Flajnik’s radar! Ben took the ladies to Belize on the latest episode, where he said goodbye to Emily along with Rachel Trueheart. In case you’ve missed the show, you can read the full recap here.

Emily said that she is actually thankful that Ben sent her packing on this week’s episode of the show. She revealed, “I’ve had people say I dodged a bullet. I don’t think Ben was ready for a long-term commitment. I won’t be happy if Ben ends up with Lindzi, Nicki or Kacie. I think they deserve someone a little bit different or maybe someone who’s a little more on their level or a little more grounded. Certainly, I think Courtney and Ben are what each other are looking for.”

As Reality Steve has already pointed out in his spoilers for the show, Ben does end up with Courtney Robertson in the end. It’s also been rumored that Ben has already left whoever he was engaged to.

Ben encouraged the ladies to open up to him after it was revealed that Casey S. already had a boyfriend back home. So, Emily took it upon herself to let Ben know that Courtney wasn’t a very nice person. She said, “He started to see me as antagonistic of what he wanted, which was Courtney. I wish that he had supported me and encouraged me instead of reacting the way that he did. I want someone who respects my opinion and respects my feelings.”

She went on to say, “The most bothersome thing is this double-standard in terms of speaking with Ben. HE asked for openness and honesty and that’s the only reason I trusted him to talk about Courtney. I think it would have been a mistake to bring him home knowing what I know now. He is not the type of guy that I would want to bring home to my family…So, I’m relieved.”

On the topic of Courtney, she said, “It’s sad that she had a hard time and that she’s having a hard time now with all the fall out. But I’d encourage her to take this as a lesson. If you want people to like you, you have to change your attitude and be nice.”

We don’t think Courtney cares if anyone likes her or not…Do you?

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  • BrooklynLass

    I agree with Emily.

    Who wants a man so easily led around by his penis…..in front of millions of people! I would definitely be embarrased to bring someone that dumb home to meet my family.

    This guy is so blind Stevie Wonder and Ray Charles could see further than he can.

    And the girl literally, not figuaratively, sound creepy as HELL!  Can you imagine being married and having to listen to that 2nd grade, baby sounding voice for the next 50 years….while she is always twisting her hair?! 

    When she is doing those on camera aside interviews I can hear ”scary movie music” playing in in the background of my head.

    What is going to be really, really interesting will be the reunion show! What does he say to Courtney on camera after seeing not just how she manipulated him, but how she did it so damned EASILY on tv? I mean, it wasn’t even a little bit hard! He runs a business?  Is he embarrassed by the “thousands” of blogs basically calling him one “dumb” man?

    Yeah, Emily, you did dodge a bullet!  Big time!

    • http://vforvandyke.com vforvandyke

      “Who wants a man so easily led around by his penis”

      Comment of the day.

    • The Truth

      Ben has a LOT of maturing to do and is a long way from ready for marriage to anyone.
      It is actually unfortunate that all those women on the show, many highly intelligent with a lot going for them, wound up with Ben as the Bachelor.  At least they got to go to a few nice places, as he was a dud.  They can all probably do better on one of the online dating sites.  

      Courtney will soon disappear in the obscurity from which she came. Likely finding it hard for anyone but her mother and father to take her seriously after this.

  • G1969

    Sour grapes EMily. He should have sent you home earlier. It is better to keep silent and thought a fool , then to speak up and remove all doubt.

    • Guessmenot

       Or perhaps the Truth is a hard pill to swallow…..And we know that Ben does not swallow much other then the lies dished out by Courtney.
      Emily had more guts then most to confront the matter , its his deafness and inability to accept a FACT that will be his falling.

    • What

      What sour grapes? You’re really living on some other planet.

  • Guest

    I didn’t think it would take Emily long to come to a lot of those conclusions. 

    The AFTR and WTA should be VERY interesting.

    • BrooklynLass

      You’re right. After seeing how easily he could be manipulated I couldn’t imagine being married to him for 40 or 50 years. A real woman (not fake like Courtney) wants someone who is dependable and have some common-sense.

      Even though I understands he runs a business it seems when it comes to women he isn’t the most sophisticated of men. I am blown away with the ease it took to manipulate him by this woman. This is not a man I’d want to spend the rest of my life with.

  • Devongaines76

    Emily is boring, I’m glad she got sent home!

    • Cassidy0507

      boring? Emily was the only one in the group who has depth and had the courage to call out the truth early on.  many of them, courtney in particular, are shallow and silly.

  • Me

    I agree with her. She really did doge a bullet. Very classy statement she made! She could have said so much worse! haha

  • Cassidy0507

    She’s got class.  Her interview proved it once again.  She could have said worse about Courtney but she didn’t.