Kasey was heartbroken when her boyfriend broke up with her out of the blue in a text message. As many young girls do these days, she took to her Tumblr page to vent her anger, sadness, and frustration. At 2:09 a.m. on Tuesday the young girl wrote, “Taylor Swift, I hope you see this. We’ve been together for four months. He just texted me and told me he was done with me. Gave me no reason and kept trying to get me to do irrational things to get him back. Now he’s calling me names and I just feel crumbled. I don’t know what to do.”
While she posted the Tumblr message incredibly early in the morning, Swift, 25, responded within a few hours, writing, “He ended it, just like that?”
Kasey answered. “I thought he was forever, Taylor.”
Give It Love posted the entire message which reads:
“Oh my God, I know. It’s so devastating to come to terms with speaking of someone in past tense when you used to see them as your present and your future. But think about what he said. It will take a while for you to get those words out of your head.”
“Heartbreak is awful enough. The fact that you have to endure this kind of emotional abuse is so wrong. I know it’s hard, but I think it’s time to utilize the ‘block’ feature on your phone. This is just damaging. Do you have to see him around?”
Swift ended with this tidbit of advice:
“So don’t give him the chance to say more damaging things. There is nothing wrong with avoiding people who hurt you. You fell in love, no games. Now you’re saying goodbye with no games. Protect yourself, please. I’m so sorry this happened.”
If that wasn’t enough awesome advice from Taylor Swift, she went on to create a playlist for her young fan.
“I made you a break up/moving on playlist: Stay Away – Charli xcx, Not Around – Montgomery Wings – HAERTS, Coffins – Misterwives, Sleep – Azure Ray, Begin Again – Measure.”
So how did Kasey respond to the singer’s advice? She wrote, “Today has been so amazing that the smile I feel needs to be shared,” she wrote on her Instagram page the next day. Thank you, @taylorswift.”
Taylor Swift is famous for her music and for her incredibly kind acts that are focused on making her fans smile. This is a great story but also par for the course for pop’s reigning queen.