Pop singer Katy Perry is featured on the cover of the October issue of “Harper’s Bazaar” magazine and inside she talks about past relationships and what she wants in a future one.
With regard to what she has learned from her past relationships, she said, “What I’ve learned is that if you don’t have the foundation of self-love first, you really have nowhere to pull love from to give it away. I had to learn about taking care of myself before I could take care of others. I want to mommy everyone. I want to take care of them. I want to save them, and I forget myself in the meantime. I learned that through therapy.”
When asked what she’s looking for in a future relationship, she said, “As I’m heading into my 30s I have less time for bullsh*t. I look for the same characteristics: a sense of humor—someone who makes me laugh off the charts—someone who is sensitive, someone who loves and understands music, and who is really smart. A lot of times I’ve ended up with people who have been intimidated by me, unfortunately. They say they’re not, but it comes out in the long run. They’re threatened, or there’s resentment because they don’t know how to handle it.”
Lastly, she opened up about where she meets guys. She said, “Well I’m not really on the street. It’s usually just through friends of friends. We have a lot of dinner parties. I’m definitely not on Tinder, even though I joke about it.”
You can see more photos from her shoot here.